RIP AMY

Rest in peace to Amy Winehouse. I sometimes just don't have sympathy for druggies but in this case i feel for this girl. The media can turn your biggest dreams in to a complete nightmare. A young talented singer my age lost the battle between her own demons. As cliche as it is, you are your own worst enemy and without self control and a good support system, you are bound to self destruct. Amy's long streak of unstable behavior should have prompted someone to really step in and do something for this girl. I understand that you cant control a person and that change comes from ones self. However, her family and friends said it came as no surprise. They almost appeared to be just waiting for her to die or overdose. Her relationship seemed to play a LARGE part in her demise and the breakup may have been what broke her completely. She went from a promising from grammy winning songstress to bonafied crack head. We all sat and watched her die, lose weight, teeth and her sanity. My biggest thought is, had she not been who she was, never been under a microscope or spotlight would she still be alive today? How would her life had played out differently?? May she finally rest in peace. She's gone but her voice will certainly not be forgotten.

For the love of money……

Money and happiness seem to be like oil and water. You can’t have one and have the other. They just don’t mix or so people say. The love of money turns some into heartless, greedy, snakes who value nothing more than the value of their funds. Everyone wants to be rich right? Live in million dollar homes, schmooze with socialites and celebs, frolic on the world’s greatest beaches. But at what cost? Happiness??? There is nothing wrong with having attainable goals and a solid plan. To say I want to be a millionaire next year and have no plan isn’t really fathomable. My belief is that people confuse riches with success. Being successful and reaching for something you want is better than any riches. Big money comes with big problems, taxes and leaches. Becoming what you want in life. Finding your niche. Achieving your goals is an indescribable feeling that money can’t quite provide.

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Sunday, July 18, 2010

Let The Church Say....Pass the Courvoisier Amen





Ok imma go there to that oh so touchy subject we all steer clear of publicly or socially conversing about. Religion. Honest to goodness I’m writing this over a tweet that struck someone’s nerve, mine initially and theirs in my sarcastic response of course! Im sry! I studied the bible and religion in college and didn’t learn much, maybe because my teacher didn’t speak good English. Touchy, touch, touchy thing it is. Religion. Living where I live as corny and trite as this sounds it’s a small melting pot. College town's usually consist of thousands of different countries cultures and religions. My best advice point. Blank. Period. Respect peoples culture and religious choices. Religion and Racism run hand in hand if you ask me. The quickest way to insult someone is to degrade or deface something they believe in or support. On A side note while I’m on the subject, something a few friends of mine have been noticing a lot; The Mon-Sat freak and the Sunday holy roller. Yeah you know what in talking about!!!! Please stop with this act of hypocrisy and absurdity!!! I cant tell you how many times I can go on my Facebook on any random week day see a “F*** them H*es talking bout me, I’m on my grown woman S*yt get like me” or B*tch I’m finna go get on this oil, drink me some 4 Locos” But come SUNDAY you are “Holy Holy Holy praise ye jah ” “shhooondababboshaaahfjdjkd speaking tongue's” “Good is good (on Sundays)“ Get the HELLLLLLLLL outta here. That bugs me beyond belief! We got to do better as a whole people. Facebook status updates and not cussing and drinking on Sunday’s is not your ticket to living sanctified. I have my own views and opinions of religion, culture and God now that I’m an adult. As a child its forced on us. People either use it for the good of them, or a tool of destruction. I want to call myself a Christian. Then again what is Christianity? What is religion? Man made? Yeah. I think it is. Will we ever know the answers to these questions. NO. 


I personally went a slightly spiritual route. Pray. Stay positive, read my affirmations. I don’t go to church, only on rare occasions.  I don’t send prayer request when I want rims on my car or a new fit, and I don’t go ham on Sundays to make people think I’m more than I am. Working on a cleaner natural diet (if possible) lol. Try to be a better person. Make better and MUCH more conscious choices. And yes my life has been better. And no my Southern Baptist or AME church house didn’t influence me to those changes or help me. Meaning that people often get caught up in “being” part of a religion, verses and individual. All the rules of what u can and cant do just to even come sit in church, such as a dress code. It’s discouraging. I don’t shun going to church, or believing in what you believe in. Just think about things a little open minded. Do what works for you. Not for the majority.