RIP AMY

Rest in peace to Amy Winehouse. I sometimes just don't have sympathy for druggies but in this case i feel for this girl. The media can turn your biggest dreams in to a complete nightmare. A young talented singer my age lost the battle between her own demons. As cliche as it is, you are your own worst enemy and without self control and a good support system, you are bound to self destruct. Amy's long streak of unstable behavior should have prompted someone to really step in and do something for this girl. I understand that you cant control a person and that change comes from ones self. However, her family and friends said it came as no surprise. They almost appeared to be just waiting for her to die or overdose. Her relationship seemed to play a LARGE part in her demise and the breakup may have been what broke her completely. She went from a promising from grammy winning songstress to bonafied crack head. We all sat and watched her die, lose weight, teeth and her sanity. My biggest thought is, had she not been who she was, never been under a microscope or spotlight would she still be alive today? How would her life had played out differently?? May she finally rest in peace. She's gone but her voice will certainly not be forgotten.

For the love of money……

Money and happiness seem to be like oil and water. You can’t have one and have the other. They just don’t mix or so people say. The love of money turns some into heartless, greedy, snakes who value nothing more than the value of their funds. Everyone wants to be rich right? Live in million dollar homes, schmooze with socialites and celebs, frolic on the world’s greatest beaches. But at what cost? Happiness??? There is nothing wrong with having attainable goals and a solid plan. To say I want to be a millionaire next year and have no plan isn’t really fathomable. My belief is that people confuse riches with success. Being successful and reaching for something you want is better than any riches. Big money comes with big problems, taxes and leaches. Becoming what you want in life. Finding your niche. Achieving your goals is an indescribable feeling that money can’t quite provide.

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Thursday, March 4, 2010

Friends, Foes & Frustrated

At this point in my life I can say that I’m happy. Things are going well. I have a pretty good job. I’m in school. I’m alive and well. I’m thankful. With my life remotely in order am I in any position to help, judge or critique a person? A friend? Some where in me I think its my duty as a human being to feel compassion for others when they are in an emotional stand still. I never feel like I have too much going on that I cant help someone. They say people like me, mixed people, are different. Its said that we develop sooner than any other group of people and we have a harder time fitting in and dealing with life. But why? What genetically makes us the beautiful mature ticking time bombs that we are? So mature WE but so unable to deal with what the world hands us. What we think the “world hands us” is exactly what have made. The situations we get into are the ones we created for ourselves to walk into. Its easier to mess things up but even harder to say, yea its my fault or I did this and I gotta fix it. Its even more difficult when you have people around you that watch the ship your in sink like it’s a debut movie on a Friday night. When you have friends that need help and you clearly see it where do you draw the line between helping a person, frustrating yourself or even losing that person as a friend all together? Would it be worth it to do all 3? Help my friend, wear myself out in end the and possibly lose them altogether. And say I made a difference in their life, the change or difference they needed but were no longer friends. Was it worth it? Did I help that someone from further extending themselves into darkness and lose my patience and friend as well? It seems like a lose-lose situation. If I sit back and let this person I love muddle themselves in the ground and I just observe, what type of person does that make me? I know I’m on this earth to do more than just serve myself. Sometimes I wish people had the potential to see in them what I see. It’s just like an anorexic person, they see fat and we see skinny or under weight. Who will win and how do I, myself, my friend or foe plan on adjusting to change?
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