Ok so i have most def been MIA lately. But that will all change soon. With finals done and a new job starting this week I have a lil stress relieved so that I can further conclude my shyt talking endeavors.
So today someone really pissed me off at the expense of a joke that I made. So in actuality I pissed myself off?? Idk. Well I made a regular joke about someone being boring. And well they are. My definition of boring is= Someone who never does ANYTHING social, Has no friends, and finds joy in sitting at home 24/7. But that is MY perception of boring. The real definition of boring is dull. So i'm guess i'm pretty close. This DULL person became offended by a joke I made that they initiated. I mean u pitched it and i just hit it what do u want me to do? Well, it escalated to a validation/insecurity type issue. It seemed like they used my (truthful and honest) joke (thats an oxymoron i think??) against me to try to validate the pretty dull life they lead. Lately i really been talking about people being so insecure with themselves. This is one of those cases. I just wish people would take into consideration that they are totally responsible for the way their life is. If u enjoy it then its what u created, if u hate it.....its still what u created. But don't tell me u love ur life when i call u boring and every other day of the week u bitch and complain about well almost everything. If i feel you are dull and you don't then why would you become offended? People consume themselves with the things that make them "comfortable" to makeup for the things they lack in life. Its seems like self image is not valued high these days. It was also said that i was judgmental. The judgmental seem to attack people on moral values. I call it opinionated and realistic. We are ALL guilty of being "judgmental" in some way. It sucks because that i chose to live my life as a social 24 year old adult, with no children, limitations, husband or baggage, who doesn't drink or smoke, and who likes to go out occasionally is looked at as "bad lifestyle" Because apparently having fun is a whole other type of "lifestyle" choice.
One thing that really irks me is how people change for all the wrong reasons or how people change when they get in relationships. So many people lose their identity in relationships. I know peoples priorities change but how much should they? What do you give up with new relationships? I swore to myself that i would never let myself get overly consumed with a person....Maybe thats partly why i'm single. Fear or losing my freedom and most of all losing Kristina.
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