RIP AMY

Rest in peace to Amy Winehouse. I sometimes just don't have sympathy for druggies but in this case i feel for this girl. The media can turn your biggest dreams in to a complete nightmare. A young talented singer my age lost the battle between her own demons. As cliche as it is, you are your own worst enemy and without self control and a good support system, you are bound to self destruct. Amy's long streak of unstable behavior should have prompted someone to really step in and do something for this girl. I understand that you cant control a person and that change comes from ones self. However, her family and friends said it came as no surprise. They almost appeared to be just waiting for her to die or overdose. Her relationship seemed to play a LARGE part in her demise and the breakup may have been what broke her completely. She went from a promising from grammy winning songstress to bonafied crack head. We all sat and watched her die, lose weight, teeth and her sanity. My biggest thought is, had she not been who she was, never been under a microscope or spotlight would she still be alive today? How would her life had played out differently?? May she finally rest in peace. She's gone but her voice will certainly not be forgotten.

For the love of money……

Money and happiness seem to be like oil and water. You can’t have one and have the other. They just don’t mix or so people say. The love of money turns some into heartless, greedy, snakes who value nothing more than the value of their funds. Everyone wants to be rich right? Live in million dollar homes, schmooze with socialites and celebs, frolic on the world’s greatest beaches. But at what cost? Happiness??? There is nothing wrong with having attainable goals and a solid plan. To say I want to be a millionaire next year and have no plan isn’t really fathomable. My belief is that people confuse riches with success. Being successful and reaching for something you want is better than any riches. Big money comes with big problems, taxes and leaches. Becoming what you want in life. Finding your niche. Achieving your goals is an indescribable feeling that money can’t quite provide.

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Saturday, March 6, 2010

Sufficient Funds??



A guy a dated once who told me I was too independent. I never knew there was such a thing. "Kristina your too independent thats whats wrong with soooo many women, letting that shyt go to ur head". WTF???? Me?? So i'm thinking theres gotta be something wrong with this dude! Maybe its the culture difference? Hes a ras and i'm an ass.

I worked for everything i have and i'm not ashamed of it. But i'm not one of those bragging ass, flashing by bills in the club type people either. So i never really knew where he was coming from until i lost a few things i was"proud" of. Kinda like like when you become smart but don't get any wiser, Its forgetting what u leave behind in all your glory and grandeur. Yourself. And your faith in non-material things. Its like being the "ultimate independent woman" was too overbearing for someone to handle because my main focus was look at what i have done 24/7. Not ok i have done well the end lets not build a shrine and worship it. The ability to compromise is highly difficult to the cliche', stereotypical, independent person. So can we be autonomous and be happy..... Yeah. Can you be autonomous and not overly arrogant?? Thats the question. 

Self-sufficiency seems to be the blessing with the curse. I am totally under the assumption that sometimes things happen the way they do or don't in my case because of our sufficient funds. But oh well.....I guess being on top and alone is better than being in the gutter PERIOD.

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